Indian Party Meal Planning

If you’re already a pro at Indian Party meal planning, this post might seem too simple. But if you are a beginner or always worried about where to begin, then I am sure this post gives you just enough jump-start to plan your next party and dishes with perfection.

This post outlines 101 amazing planning tips along with exotic sample menus for potlucks and gatherings that will make your next event a huge success. So, let’s get started with a straightforward, easy-to-follow checklist for remarkable hosting. 

Indian Party Meal planning - Party Planning 101

Hosting a dinner party is a great way to connect with family and friends and create memories that last. However, hosting the guests and entertaining them can be exhausting and tricky.

If not planned well, it brings more stress, and if you are stressed, it completely ruins the fun of hosting and enjoying yourself with your friends.

And if it’s an Indian Party Meal planning, trust me, it needs thoughtful planning!

Indian cooking is elaborate and demands time. The three-course Indian meal starts with

With such an elaborate meal spread, it is best to KEEP IT SIMPLE! Yes, follow this rule of thumb, and you will have lots of saved time and energy. 

With a plan in action, I can host all my parties like a pro, and this is what I will share with you today.

Set your priorities. Priorities will help you plan a great party time every time.

Pick a date - Indian Party Meal planning

Of course, you need a date! Selecting a date well in advance for your Indian party meal planning gives you ample time to prepare for the event and helps make it more stress-free.

  • You'll be able to have the overall idea about the event clearly, and
  • Start with the necessary arrangements early.
  • A prior selection of date also facilitates considering the availability of the guests on that date.

So, whether it is Holi, Diwali, Thanksgiving, Christmas, or any special occasion like a birthday or anniversary, blocking your date in advance and sending in the invites will let your guests know that they have been already roped in for the event and should not make any other commitment! 

Making a guest list helps to make better decisions, deciding upon the kind of space to accommodate the guests comfortably and the quantity of food/ drinks required, etc. Here’s a checklist that can help —

Create a list of people you are inviting. Doing this ensures you don’t miss out on any of the invitees.

Send out formal invites, an email, or a text message and save the date on people’s calendars.

  • A formal invite will also let your guests know it’s a special dinner party, not a regular one.
  • I usually prefer doing this 2 - 3 weeks in advance. Because the earlier we send the invites, the more guests are likely to turn up.
  • Plan to send your invites a little earlier for major events like a Diwali party or a New Year’s Eve party. Ensure our guests are informed before making other plans for those events.

Be specific about the number of guests coming over – the head count. Calculate the number of adults and the number of invited kids so you know exactly how big the group will be. This helps in making proper arrangements. If possible, take confirmations from guests to ensure who can attend and who can not.

Check on any special dietary needs for the elderly or people with food sensitivities. Some people may prefer no onion no garlic meals or completely vegetarian meals or even vegan meals. You need to cater to their needs.

Deciding on essentials for Indian party meal planning will help you determine the next step. This will also let the preparations run smoothly and keep you from the last-minute rush.

Decide on the serve-ware — Give a moment to think about how you would want to serve the food to your guests.

  • Using disposable paper plates and plastic glasses would be your preference,
  • Or would you prefer using your fine serve-ware or expensive dinner set and cutlery?
  • If it is not a formal sitting arrangement, then using disposable/ biodegradable products for serving will be the best option. 

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Other essentials and décor — Besides the tableware/serve ware, you also need to decide on the other requirements such as —

  • The paper napkins/ formal cloth napkins,
  • The table covers, centerpieces, etc.
  • The table décor also requires some planning, as this sets the event’s vibes the way you want.
  • Pick the colors and the textures of the tableware, the table cover, and other accessories that complement well with each other.  

A colorful blend of accessories/ décor will create a joyful ambience and uniquely creative tablescape.

Decorating the table — Adding fresh flowers to the table décor on the dinner party day will surely bring in some freshness and colors, so remember to add them to your to-do list for the final day. 

Gather cooking equipment —If it is a large gathering, you may need large cooking ware, too. Check your kitchen to ensure you have the necessary equipment, or else you will have to make arrangements (buy or rent out).

If you are planning to host a theme party, customizing your décor according to the chosen theme is something that needs some contemplation. It doesn’t have to be too elaborate, but selecting the basic theme will bring more fun to the party and make it unique.

Here are some ideas to narrow down your décor and color choices so you can quickly transform your party space into a visually inviting spot.

Diwali Theme — This décor has to be completely festive, which evokes feelings of warmth, relaxation, and joyfulness. So, consider bringing in —

Sports-night party — Choose the décor that resonates with the corresponding sports you have gathered to enjoy together over the dinner party. Such as —

16th Birthday Party — A special occasion and therefore a special décor! Deck up the party space according to gender. You could go for —

Holi party — The Holi décor must be very vibrant and colorful, setting the instant Holi vibes! Add colors that complement each other and create harmony among the various decoration elements. 

Keeping the budget in mind and understanding where to splurge and where to save, you can cleverly set the ambiance right for the event.

Christmas Party — Red, green, and golden colors are the obvious choices for chic décor when you think of Christmas.

  • The flowers, the table runners, candleholders,
  • Santa décor, and anything and everything have to be glittery and fun to elevate the festive vibes.
  • How about adorning the space with some poinsettia
  • Or dried petals for flower arrangement on a table? Of course, that’s a great idea! 

New Year’s Party — A friendly color theme consisting of bright and shiny colors for New Year’s Eve adds much-needed party flavor to the evening. New Year’s centerpieces —

  • Either flowers or candleholders add cheerfulness to the ambiance and never fail to impress.
  • As I am a huge fan of candles, I use them as the centerpieces for my parties, and so can you.
  • But if kids are also there, you can use LED candles for the ambiance for safety reasons.
  • Confetti and paper decoration can also bring in an extra jazziness and enhance your décor without much effort. 

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No party is complete without food and drinks. It is a significant part of any event. So once the first four priorities are in place, then comes planning the party menu, and this is where the fun begins!

As the hostess, plan the menu according to the event. The key is to prepare a meal that is doable for you. Here are a few pointers that can help you plan a meal —

Plan a meal that is —

  • Wholesome, hearty, and made of real ingredients.
  • Select a variety of dishes that showcase different flavors, textures, and hues.
  • Choose a balance of vegetarian and non-vegetarian dishes that accommodate varied dietary preferences.
  • This will make for a soulful meal that everyone will enjoy. 

Based on the course, decide the number of items you need to prepare for your Indian party meal planning. You may also plan to cook some things at home and order a few from the restaurant. Make a separate list of the items that are to be prepared at home and the ones that are to be ordered outside. 

Planning will let you efficiently organize —

  • Your time and energy
  • And prevent you from the last-minute rush and exertion.
  • Try to plan your menu in such a way that some of the dishes can be prepared in advance or a day ahead so you can relax on the day of the party.

These dishes may be appetizers that require last-moment assembling or sides such as —

  • Marinades, spice mixes, and sauces/ dips.
  • Some curries and gravies can also be prepared in advance and stored in the fridge.
  • Dishes like Biryani taste even better when prepared in advance because the flavors get time to meld together!

Try to utilize your morning time the most and finish off with most of the preparations. Plan in such a way that you have to do the least cooking on the day of the party.

Finalize the headcount — For example, if there are 16 adults and 16 kids under 16, I plan to cook for 25 people. But if there are older kids above 16, my head count would be 30 people. 

We feast with our eyes first — A colorful spread attracts our eyes and appetites. Pick a color scheme and add it to the different elements skillfully to create harmony among the décor and the dishes.

  • Display a colorful spread of different dishes, keeping in mind the color combinations.
  • Also, keep the food color scheme in mind for an impressive menu.
  • For example, try not to cook Rajma with Paneer tikka masala as they belong to the same color scheme – red, or Kadhi pakora with Gobi – yellow color scheme.
  • Try to plan such that it maintains the harmony of colors and is eye-pleasing.

Besides the color scheming — ensure the ingredients are not repeated in one course.

  • For example, Kadai Paneer with Panner Tikka. Consider the flavor combinations and clashes while pairing the dishes that work well together.
  • For instance, the crunchy textured Kadai Paneer pairs well with Chole or Rajma, and the more creamier and melt-in-mouth textured Paneer Tikka Masala goes perfectly with Kadhi or Dal Makhani.

When deciding the menu — keep in mind the dry and gravy dishes that you plan to serve.

  • Have a balance of dry and gravy dishes for a perfect combination.
  • For example, Achari Gobi, a dry veggie, can be perfectly paired up with Kofta curry, a gravy dish.
  • Their different flavors and textures perfectly complement each other.
  • Raita as an accompaniment on the menu is always a good idea. Being cool, it balances the spicy flavor of the Indian food. 

Plan dishes according to the weather — In winter, dishes prepared in the morning stay just fine till the evening, but in summer, some of the items may go stale- my personal experience. So, it is safer to plan to prepare dishes considering the existing weather.

A salad on the menu — makes a healthy and colorful addition to the meal.

  • It not only adds nutrition but makes the meal more delightful and appealing.
  • Besides being crunchy and enjoyable, salad is also light on the stomach.
  • Try to add a selection of vegetables to make the salad eye-pleasing and nutrient-dense. 

Appetizers — They are an indispensable part of the Indian party meal planning where your guests can enjoy the tasty bites before the main course.

  • Plan the appetizers in such a way that it requires minimal work at the last minute.
  • For instance, if the appetizer demands baking, keep some time for that.
  • Another example could be the salad that needs to be assembled at the last minute.
  • So, save some time separately for such preparations. 

Create Ambiance - Indian Party Meal planning

Creating a perfect ambiance for the party sets the mood and enhances your guests’ overall experience. 

Lighting —Use lighting according to the theme of the party.

  • For example, soft and warm lighting creates a cozy and inviting atmosphere for a family dinner party.
  • The Diwali party will see more candles, diyas, and string lights.
  • New Year party lighting will have disco lights and so on.

Music — Usually forgotten, but quite important to set the party mood. Play background music, complementing the mood and theme of the party.

  • You can also create a playlist and let it run in the background.
  • Keep the volume low enough so that people can chit-chat comfortably without music hindering their conversation.
  • A piece of light music will set the ambiance just right. 

Fragrance — Light-scented candles or diffusers with subtle scents create a pleasing ambiance.

  • Choose aromas that complement the season or the cuisine you are serving.
  • While using fragrances, be mindful of the guests with allergies or sensitivities and choose mild scents only.

A little attention to the lighting, music, fragrance, and some personal touches can create a warm and inviting ambiance.

Temperature and Ventilation — Ensure your home is well-ventilated and the temperature is comfortable for the guests. 

Personal touches — You can add touches that reflect your style and make your guests feel welcome.

  • For example, display interesting art pieces or items, family photos, etc.
  • Provide them with a welcome drink or a personalized card for each guest!

Have Fun - - Indian Party Meal planning

The last and final secret is to HAVE FUN! Always include a resting time – how will you entertain others if you are not well rested?

Resting before hosting a party helps you approach the event with vitality, clarity, and reduced stress levels. It ensures you are in the best physical and mental state to engage with your guests.

It enables you to enjoy the gathering and also provides a memorable experience for your guests that they will cherish for years to come.

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83 Comments

  1. Could you please tell me measurement for following dishes?
    Chole(If I used canned one and normal)
    butter paneer
    pav bhaji
    for 10 people
    and If we do catering what should be price for that?(if you have any idea)
    Thank you

    1. Asmita,
      I have no idea about the catering prices, it depends on the caterer.
      For 10 people you will need :

      600 grams of paneer for Paneer butter masala
      800 grams of raw chole
      For Pav bhaji you will need :
      2 Bell peppers, chopped

      6 Potatoes medium, peeled and chopped
      5 Carrots cut in small pieces
      3 cups Cauliflower (Gobi) cut in small pieces
      2 cups Green peas
      Onions
      Cilantro
      Water
      4 tbsp Pav Bhaji Masala
      Salt
      Lemon juice

      Hope this helps!

      1. Thank you Madam for reply
        I was waiting for email notification for this answer.
        sorry for the late reply

  2. Hi Ruchi,

    I am hosting a dinner for
    age 7-10 - 12
    age 11-15 - 12
    adults - 45

    and menu is
    Chole
    Puri
    Rice
    Dry potato subji
    Gulab jamun
    Bite size Samosa
    what is the quantity I should make for all these items.
    Really appreceiate as i never cooked for so many people.
    Thanks

  3. HI Ruchi My daughter birthday is on 17 auguest we are hosting party 40 adult and 15 kids range between 1-10 years. i have help . my menu is Appitizer Harabhar kabab, pasta salad,7layer dip, and garlic bread. and 2 chicken appitizer which I am going to order out. for main course 1 paneer curry, aloo gobhi, veg biryani, boondi rayta. and paratha i am going to order out so how much quantity do i need ? for paneer, aloo gobhi Rice

    Thank you

    1. Kalyani, are you looking for how much quantity of food you should order from outside, or the raw quantity for paneer, aloo gobhi, and rice?

      1. I am sorry I should explain you properly. I am planning to make food at home. So my question is how much paneer, aloo ghobi and rice for biryani I should use.

        Thank you for prompt reply

      2. Kalyani,
        Please mention what kind of paneer curry are you planning to make: is it matar paneer, makhani paneer, paneer tikka masala or any other variety you have in mind.

      3. Kalyani,

        Please find your menu enclosed below:

        For the rice-

        I usually keep a measurement of 1/2 cup (uncooked) rice per person. That equals 25 cups of rice for 40 adults + 10 kids.
        25 cups of basmati rice, soaked in water for 15 minutes

        Aloo Gobi -

        30 potatoes, medium, cubed
        15 cauliflower, medium, cut into small florets
        15 onion, medium, chopped
        30 tomatoes, medium, chopped
        Cumin seeds
        6 tablespoons ginger-garlic paste
        Turmeric powder
        Amchur
        Red chili powder
        Garam masala powder
        Coriander powder
        13 tablespoons oil
        Chopped cilantro
        salt, to taste

        I hope this helps! Did hear back from you on the Paneer dish but rest of the details are given above.

  4. Hello mam,

    We are having a party for 40 ppl with 10 kids aged 4-7. We are ordering naan 20 cut into 4 pieces and veg biryani.

    I am planning to do paneer gravy dish And daal makhni and som explain rice or curd rice. Pls let me know what quantity should I prepare these dishes and also should I add another veggie dish along with it. We also have veggie salad and samosa for starters and cake and ice cream for desert.

    1. Sarayu,
      Please mention what paneer dish and rice are you planning to make? You can add mix veg if you like.

    2. Sarayu, please find the measurements below -

      Rice -

      I usually keep a measurement of 1/2 cup (uncooked) rice per person. That equals 20 cups of rice for 40 adults plus 2 cups extra for kids. A total of 22 cups of rice.

      Dal makhani -

      7 cups of Whole Urad Dal
      2.5 cups Rajma
      TADKA
      8 large onions
      15 teaspoon each of ginger-garlic paste
      10 large tomatoes
      Cumin seeds
      Cinnamon
      Tejpatta
      Red chili powder
      Garam Masala Powder
      Kasuri Methi
      Butter
      Cream to add at the last.

      Shahi Paneer

      4 kg Paneer
      10 pieces of green cardamom
      MARINATION-
      5 cups of thick yogurt
      Garam Masala
      Salt
      Red chili powder
      CURRY PASTE-
      10 medium onions minced
      6 teaspoon each of ginger-garlic paste
      14 cups of tomato puree
      30-35 whole green cardamom
      60 whole cashews
      60 whole almonds
      Cinnamon stick
      Whole bay leaf
      Whole cloves
      Corriander powder
      Red chili powder
      Sugar
      Salt
      2 cups of thick curd
      Pinch of Saffron
      Cream to add at the last
      Water
      Ghee for the curry

      Hope this helps!

  5. Hi ruchi...
    I have a pooja at home... Expecting 40(adults max...few kids)people.
    Help me in deciding..
    First menu

    Chole
    Poori...
    Rayta...
    Veg pulav

    Second menu is
    Rice
    Sambhav
    Sooji halwa
    Papad pickle salad.

    I have to manage alone...
    Which one will be easy according to you...
    N quantity also let me know...
    Any one I hv to prepare...
    Please guide me
    Thank you

    1. Deepali, the first menu will be good for pooja.
      How many kids are you expecting and are the kids small or older (14 and above) in age?

    2. Hello Deepali,
      For 40 adults, you will need:

      Chole-

      16 cups (appx. 4 kg) of raw chole. For masala you will require-
      Green cardamom pods
      Moti Eliachi
      Black peppercorns
      Bay leaves
      Cinnamon sticks
      Salt, to taste
      Water to boil the chole
      Cloves
      FOR MASALA – since its for pooja I have omitted the onions.
      Pureed tomatoes
      Chole masala ( that you had prepared earlier👆)
      Red chili powder, or to taste
      Cumin powder
      Chopped cilantro

      Poori- You can easily do 4-5 pooris per person. That equals – 160-180 pooris.

      Raita- You will need

      11 cups of Yogurt
      5.5 cups of soaked boondi
      5-6 cups of milk

      Veg Pulao- I usually keep a measurement of 1/2 cup (uncooked) rice per person.

      That equals 20 cups of rice for 40 adults.
      For biryani-
      Bay leaf
      Star anise
      Elaichi
      Cinnamon stick
      Cloves
      20 cups of basmati rice, soaked in water for 15 minutes
      Saffron infused in warm milk
      Mint leaves
      Coriander leaves
      Cauliflower,
      Carrots,
      Potatoes,
      Green beans,
      Green peas,
      Water to cook rice.

      I hope this helps! Feel free to email me if you have any other queries. Enjoy!

  6. Hi Ruchi,

    So this is a very casual gathering with our neighbors and I really want to serve Chole with hot puris. There will be hot appetizers, but not sure if I should serve jeera rice or go with biryani and raita for main course with chole.

  7. Hi Ruchi,
    I am going to be throwing my first Indian vegetarian dinner party. I have invited 7-8 colleagues, a mix of Indian and non-Indians. They are mostly good with spice, though I should definitely keep some bland options. I was thinking of the following menu:
    1. Tikki with alu,corn and rice (with green and tamarind chutney)
    2. A paneer starter
    3. Some carrots.cucumbers with simple dips
    4. Veg Tawa Pulao/Biryani
    5. Bharwan Bhindi
    6. A gravy vegetable
    7. Dal
    8. Raita
    What quantities should i consider so that it is sufficient for this group?

    1. Hello Kruti,
      Please find enclosed the quantity for your menu-
      1. Tikki with alu,corn and rice (with green and tamarind chutney)
      I am assuming its a mixed tikki not stuffed.

      So you will require 2 per head that would make 16-18 tikkis. Take 6 big potatoes* along with 1 cup corn, and 2 cups boiled rice to make tikkis. *The size of tikki will determine the quantity of the ingredients.


      2. A paneer starter
      Chilli paneer or dry paneer Manchurian will work great.

      You will require appx. 1kg of paneer for the starters.


      3. Some carrots.cucumbers with simple dips
      Let's take ranch dip as a reference then you will require:

      12 ounces of cream cheese along with 1.25 cups of sour cream.


      4. Veg Tawa Pulao/Biryani

      Take 2.5 cups of rice along with 1.5 cups of cauliflower, 1 cup carrots, 2 medium potatoes, 1 cup sliced green beans, 3/4 cup green peas, 3/4 cup sliced mushrooms and cilantro leaves + spices.
      5. Bharwan Bhindi

      You will need 1 kg bhindi for this recipe.
      6. A gravy vegetable
      It depends on what you intend to make.
      7. Dal

      2 cups of uncooked dal. Maybe just a single dal tadka or if it is dal makhani, combine all the lentils to make it 2 cups.
      8. Raita

      2 cups of yogurt (thick) and 1 cup boondi + 3/4 cup of milk to dilute the raita.

      Have a great time and feel free to reach out to me if you have any other queries. 😊

  8. Hi Ruchi,
    Its my kids birthday party at coming Saturday. There would be approx 17 adults and 9 kids for dinner. Please let me u can suggest starter and quantity of other menu
    My menu is
    Anjeer koftas gravy
    Peas masala
    Chappathi
    Dum aloo briyani
    Curd rice

    I don't know how to decide the quantity for all pls help me. I have only one day pls help me ...

    1. Seetha, if I am getting it right then you looking for some starter ideas + the menu you suggested above, correct?

    2. Seetha,

      Here is the breakdown of your menu-
      Anjeer koftas gravy
      For the koftas:

      1.5kg - potatoes, boiled and mashed
      50-60 pieces of dried Anjeer (figs)
      3/4 cup Corn flour
      Chili Powder
      Coriander powder
      Salt to taste
      For the Gravy-
      12 medium onions, pureed
      2 tablespoons Ginger- garlic paste
      3-4 Dried red chilies (adjust according to taste)
      Coriander seeds
      10 tomatoes, pureed
      Kasoori Methi
      Salt to taste
      Garam Masala
      Coriander for garnishing + Cream

      Peas masala

      You will need 5 cups matar.
      To make the masala you will need -
      7 medium onions, pureed
      14 tomatoes, pureed
      40 pieces of cashews in a paste
      Dry Spices
      12 tablespoons of Yogurt

      Chappathi
      Since you have Dum aloo Biryani + curd rice, you will need 2 chapatis/head. That equals - 34+16= 50 Chapatis

      Dum aloo briyani

      40-45 partially boiled baby potatoes
      Marinate these potatoes in this mixture-
      6 cup thick curd
      Chili powder
      Turmeric powder
      Ginger-garlic paste
      Salt
      For biryani-
      Bay leaf
      Star anise
      Elaichi
      Cinnamon stick
      Cloves
      10 cups of basmati rice, soaked in water for 15 minutes
      Saffron soaked in warm milk
      Mint leaves
      Coriander leaves
      Fried onions
      20 cups of water

      Curd rice

      3 tsp Mustard Seeds
      50 Curry Leaves
      6 tsp Urad Dal
      2.5 tsp Ginger Grated
      3 cups Short Grain Rice
      3 cups cup Curd
      1.5 cups Milk
      Salt to taste

      For the starters, you can do either one of the following-
      Aloo tikki Chaat - You will need at least 30 tikkis
      Hara Bhara Kebab - You will need at least 40 kebabs

      Hope this helps! Have fun and enjoy your party. 😊

  9. Hi Ruchi

    Please suggest me diner menu for my sons 6 month birthday party

    15 People Non veg
    4 VEG ppl

    Please suggest menu with minimal work yet delicious

  10. Hi Ruchi,
    Can U tell me the measurnent of malai kofta curry,gobi manchurian,vegetable korma ,daal fry for 15ppls,n give me some tips how i keep samosa n chicken pokoda warm if I fry them 1.hour prior the guests coming..

  11. hii ma’am
    I want to make dinner for around 20 people all adults..

    the menu is veg biryani, chole , paneer matar masala, puri & roti, salad and raita
    but i dont know how to decide the quantity for all.
    please help

    1. Shikha, please find the breakup of ingredients below-

      BIRYANI -

      10 cup basmati rice, soaked for 30 minutes
      12.5 cups water
      5 cup of frozen green peas
      15 medium carrots, sliced
      8 medium potato, diced
      10 medium red onion, sliced
      5-6 green chili, sliced
      15 teaspoons ginger-garlic paste
      25 black peppercorns
      8 teaspoon cumin seeds
      8 bay leaf
      10 green cardamoms
      20 whole cloves
      80-90 fried cashews, broken
      2.5 cup cilantro, chopped
      5 teaspoon garam masala
      4 teaspoon Red chili powder
      7 teaspoon salt

      CHOLE-
      TO BOIL CHOLE

      8 cups raw soaked chickpeas
      12 green cardamom pods
      7 Moti Eliachi
      8 black peppercorns
      6 bay leaves
      6 cinnamon sticks
      6 tea bags (optional- for color)
      salt, to taste
      16-17 cups water
      10 cloves
      FOR MASALA -
      2.5 cups pureed onion
      7 teaspoons ginger-garlic paste
      8 cups pureed tomatoes
      10-13 teaspoons chole masala
      1.5 teaspoons red chili powder, or to taste
      2 teaspoons cumin powder
      salt, to taste
      6 tablespoons chopped cilantro

      PANEER BUTTER MASALA-

      1.5 KG Paneer
      4 cups of Green Peas
      Appx. 7 cups of water
      FOR THE GRAVY -
      10 whole green cardamom
      20-25 black peppercorns
      2.5 teaspoon cumin seeds
      5 medium onions, crushed
      4 teaspoons ginger paste
      4 teaspoons garlic paste
      15 tomatoes, pureed
      30-40 cashews, paste
      ½ cup + 2 tablespoons plain yogurt
      Cilantro, to garnish

      PURIS & ROTIS -

      Since you have biryani, you can divide rotis and pooris into half. Considering 1 roti and 2 puris/head you will need 20-30 rotis and 40-50 puris.

      RAITA-

      5 cups of Yogurt
      2 - 2.5 cups of Milk
      2.5 cups of Boondi
      Roasted Cumin Powder
      Mint Powder
      Red Chilli Powder
      Salt to taste

      Hope this helps! Feel free to email me if you have any other queries. Enjoy!

      1. Pleasure is all mine, Shikha!
        Have a lovely time and Happy Birthday to your cute little princess. 🙂

  12. Hi Ruchi

    I am preparing vegetarian Indian dinner for 11 adults and 5 kids.

    My menu is
    starters: samosa, gobi Manchuria
    Salad
    Mint chutney
    Roti
    Paneer butter masala
    Pindi Chile
    Veg biryani
    Bagara baigan
    Raita
    Custard in desert

    I am getting starters from outside. So please tell me for biryani how much ingredients will I need ..

    Thanks in advance

    1. Purna,

      For 11 adults you will need -

      4-5 bay leaf
      15 green cardamom
      12 whole cloves
      15 black peppercorns
      5 teaspoon cumin seeds
      5 medium red onion, sliced
      5 green chili, sliced
      50 raw cashews, broken
      3.5 tablespoons ginger-garlic paste
      2.5 cup frozen green peas, soaked in warm water for 10 minutes
      1.5 cups cauliflower
      10 medium carrots, sliced
      5 medium potato, diced into cubes
      1 cup cilantro, chopped
      2.5 teaspoon garam masala
      2.5 teaspoon red chili powder
      3.5 teaspoon salt, or to taste
      5 cup basmati rice, soaked in 2 cups water for 15 minutes
      10 cups water,
      8 tablespoon oil

      Hope this helps!

  13. Hi Ruchi,
    I am planning a get together almost 45 people: 25 adults and 20 kids. I have kachori aloo, noodles, Chana chat, chips and dip in appetizer.
    Main course: rice, Roti, daal makhani, aloo Gobi and butter chicken. Kindly suggest the quantity( cup measurements or pound measurements) of main course dishes I will need.
    Thank you so much.

    1. Deepali below is the breakdown of your menu with measurements.

      Rice - I usually keep a measurement of

      1/2 cup (uncooked) rice per person. That equals 10 cups of rice for 20 adults. Since you have roti on the menu, you can take 1/4 cup rice per person. Make 10 cups of rice.

      Roti - 2 per person = 60 - 70 Rotis
      Daal makhani -

      2.5 cup Whole Urad Dal
      5 tbsp Chana Dal
      1.25 cup Rajma
      1.25 cups Ghee
      3.5 teaspoons Ginger Garlic Paste
      Red Chilli Powder
      Cumin Powder
      5 cups Onion chopped or grated
      2 cups Tomato Puree
      1 cup Curd
      Garam Masala
      3/4 cup Butter
      1.25 cup Fresh Cream
      5 tbsp Kasuri Methi
      Salt to taste

      Aloo Gobi -

      30 potatoes, medium, cubed
      15 cauliflower, medium, cut into small florets
      15 onion, medium, chopped
      30 tomatoes, medium, chopped
      Cumin seeds
      6 tablespoons ginger-garlic paste
      Turmeric powder
      Amchur
      Red chili powder
      Garam masala powder
      Coriander powder
      13 tablespoons oil
      Chopped cilantro
      salt, to taste

      Butter chicken -

      4 kilograms chicken
      1/2 cup oil
      Red chili powder
      22 tomatoes
      Coriander seeds
      Cinnamon
      Green Chili
      10 clove
      1 kilogram and 500 grams butter
      Coriander powder
      Kasoori methi powder
      5 bay leaf
      Salt
      8 9 medium onion
      Fenugreek leaves
      For Marination

      7.5 teaspoon onion paste
      3 teaspoon garlic paste
      2 cups yogurt (curd)
      Green cardamom
      3.75 teaspoon ginger paste
      Mace powder
      black cardamom
      1 and 1/4 teaspoon sugar
      For Garnishing
      5-6 tablespoon fresh cream
      coriander leaves

      Enjoy the party and feel free to email me with your queries. :)

  14. hii ma'am
    I want to make dinner for around 20 people

    the menu is jeera rice, aloo gobhi, chole,shahi paneer, puri, salad and raita
    but i dont know how to decide the quantity for rice and chole.
    and which type or brand's rice should i use?
    please help

    16 adults+ 4 ( 14 to 19 age grp)

    1. Komal for 20 people you will need -

      Chole -

      4.5 cups or 900 grams of uncooked chole.
      Rice – I usually keep a measurement of

      1/2 cup (uncooked) rice per person. That equals 10 cups of rice for 20 adults. Since you have puri on the menu, you can take 1/4 cup rice per person.
      and which type or brand’s rice should I use?
      Basmati rice is good.

      Hope this helps! Enjoy!

  15. Hi Ruchi,
    Planning a birthday party with 50 guests . Please suggest me easy to do rice dish and how to prep it a day ahead.
    I have these items in the menu other than rice, Dal Makhani, Paneer Butter Masala, Aloo Gobi dry curry. So for these items how to prep ahead, can i make the gravies and boil aloo gobhi day ahead and just mix on the day,?would it still taste the same?
    Please help. Thanks in Advance.

    1. Hello Lucky,
      You can make dal makhani a day in advance. Same goes for Paneer butter masala. Prepare the gravy in advance and assemble on the day of your party. The taste will remain the same.
      Regarding rice -
      You can do Moti Pulao, Veg biryani or fried rice. Rice can also be prepared a day in advance.
      Have fun!

  16. Hi Ruchi
    Nice blog, can you add some sample menus.
    Like, Veg and non veg, cook ahead.
    I’m confused for my menu like I need to cook a day in advance or minimal cooking same day.
    I planned kadi, sukhi daal in main course. Which chicken dish and veg dish I can add?
    Do you suggest something else, with atleast one chicken dish?
    For starters I’m planning Sabudana Vada and Ming sprouts, any more suggestions?
    Thanks for your help.

    1. Thank you, Pooja for your kind words!
      Nice blog, can you add some sample menus.
      Will surely do!
      I’m confused for my menu like I need to cook a day in advance or minimal cooking same day.
      Please do some preparations a day in advance like - boil dal and store, kadi can be made in advance. Cook pakodas and store in the refrigerator. For the veg dish, you can add paneer and if considering chicken - you can make palak chicken or chicken curry to go with your menu.
      For Starters there are many options like -
      1. Bruschetta Bites - minimal prep-work required
      2. Oven baked crispy Potatoes - minimal prep-work required
      3. khaman dhokla - can be made a day in advance

      Feel free to reach out to me if you have any other questions.

  17. planning a birthday party for 45 people Guests (including 9 kids)

    please suggest a menu like
    1 welcome drink
    2 coffee with snacks (?)
    3 lunch/Dinner

  18. Hello mam , wanted to know quantities to cook for 15 people for small get together at our place
    E.g..How much quantity ingredients for Chole masala n Rice n vegetables For tawa pulav

  19. Hi Ruchi. Please suggest me some starters and dinner menu only vegetarian for my son birthday party. Total guest 20. N kids above 5years old =5 . below 5years old =4

      1. Hi Ruchi
        . Please suggest me some starters and dinner menu only vegetarian for party. Total guest 20. 4,5 pox are teenage

      2. Hello Premlata,

        For starters, you can do any two of the following - Bruschetta, Sprouts salad, Corn salsa with chips, Puff pastry samosa, Khaman dhokla, or Paneer bites.
        In dinner, you can do -
        1. A dal or a bean dish (chole, dal makhani or dal Bukhara)
        2. Paneer dish, (shahi paneer, palak paneer, Paneer tikka masala, Methi paneer, Tawa paneer)
        3. Vegetable - (veg jalfrezi, kofta curry, veg korma, or Bharwan baingan)
        4. Rice
        5. Roti/naan.
        Take Care!

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